そうじゃなくて
sōjanakute

Expression

1. no, not like that (but like this)

いまはそうじゃなくても将来 しょうらいはいい おっとになるよ。
imawa sōjanakutemo shōraiwa ii ottoni naruyo.
Even if he isn't now, he'll be a good husband in the future.