つかえなければ
sashitsukaenakereba

Expression

1. if it's alright; if you don't mind my asking; if it's all the same to you

さしつかえなければ遠慮 えんりょしていただきたいのですが。
sashitsukaenakereba enryo shite itadakitai nodesuga.
I'd rather you didn't, if you don't mind.
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